“Those Two Impostors”

Umbria oleanders



If you can keep your head when all about you
    Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
    But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
    Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
    And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;
    If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
    And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
    Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
    And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
    And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
    And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
    To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
    Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
    Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
    If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
    With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
    And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!

August is the nearly thirty year anniversary of my beloved mother’s premature death.  What an example she was!  Indeed, she was “a Man”.   She had her share of remarkable triumphs and more than her share of devastating disasters in her too-short life…and truly treated “those two impostors” with the same acceptance, grace, humility and stoicism.  I like to think she successfully instilled in me the very same virtues she lived by, that I have and will be able “to treat just the same those two impostors” with Mother’s very same exemplary acceptance, grace, humility and stoicism…and since when we teach our children we are also teaching our grandchildren… I am very proud of her strong and positive direct and indirect influence on my precious children, Mar and Michael, as well.

Mother with my daughter, Mar

blissful, unforgettable summers with Mother in California.  Five-year-old Mar telling Grandma all about her day at the San Diego Zoo – and Mother listening with interest and love to every word.



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